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The Greatest Book on Design Ever Written

4/29/2018

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I've heard it said, "To learn a new truth read an old book." Today I want to tell you about a conversational skill that I learned from an out-of-print book that I absorbed many years ago. What I learned positively impacts my design leadership work to this day.

The skill described in this book is a proven game-changer for me as I face the predictable challenges that occur in leading groups of people on the journey of product and solution design. It also measurably improves my ability to connect with people in my personal life.

Anyone can learn this skill. Mastering it is a lifelong and worthy pursuit. It provides a clearer understanding of issues and what to do about them. As a result, design conversations stay on track when issues occur. They get identified with greater understanding...and they get resolved.

If you want more confidence in how to handle issues when they occur, the life skill taught in an out-of-print book, and that I introduce in this video, will absolutely help you in your work and throughout your life.
The big takeaways
  • A proven technique for handling issues that surface in conversations and in life
  • The five things to be aware of when identifying and resolving any issue
  • How to develop trust and connection when working with people
  • Techniques for moving the conversation towards designing the resolution

Resources
  • Straight Talk - Interpersonal communication book (out of print, but still available)
  • The I-Skills Zone - Business communication learning resources (currently available)
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The Open-Ended Question That Opens People Up

7/21/2017

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When asked authentically, this three-syllable question creates connectedness, trust and understanding with anyone, even a person you have just met.

This matters because empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, is an essential ingredient in the process of designing solutions for people.

How can we understand how others are feeling unless we ask? Asking the question unlocks the potential to observe problems that would otherwise go unobserved. This is a gold mine of understanding for solutions designers.


"How's Your Day?"

So, I routinely ask this question of people because:
  • It comes from a place inside of me that truly cares about people
  • It informs my understanding of how people in the world around me are experiencing the world around me

​So often, our daily existence and interactions are framed by disconnectedness and distrust. Asking this question to someone else is so counter-cultural. Consequently, it produces a measurable shift in the environment and it creates a sense of trust and connectedness.

One of my favorite contexts to ask the question is while getting things done on the phone, standing in line or chatting online.
In the past week I can recall asking the question of people in the following contexts:
  • while waiting for a seat at a restaurant
  • while interacting with a benefits coordinator for my health care company
  • while chatting with a tech support staff member online
  • while going through the check-out line at the grocery store
  • while talking with relatives who live far away from me
  • while transacting business over the phone
We exist in a world characterized by disconnectedness and distrust.

Consequently, introducing a countercultural question produces a measurable shift in the environment and it builds trust and connectedness.

Try It and See

Understanding how people in the world are feeling is easy. Just ask them. They'll tell you. Listen to them and learn what problems they are experiencing. It will inform your design decisions.

When the woman you are talking with senses that you care enough about her to ask how her day is going, it breathes fresh life into the conversation, even if she is having a bad day. Somehow when you care enough to ask, it reaffirms her humanity and causes her to reflect on how she's feeling.

If we, as solutions designers, practice this kind of authentic caring, listening and learning on an ongoing basis, we tap into a limitless supply of priceless insight for free by simply exercising a common courtesy towards another person.

Your empathy for people and willingness to be vulnerable enough to go there immensely affect your solution design.

- Chuck


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